"Change is hardest at the beginning, Messiest in the middle, And Best at the End." ~ Robin Sharma
My experience with becoming minimalist has proven slightly different than this quote. In the beginning I was excited and had so much clutter to purge I had to pace myself. I started with the kitchen and the hard part was maintaining the spaces I had cleared. After a couple of months of staying on top of things, I took it a step further and removed the small appliances from the counter top. Now I'm working on other areas of the home.
It is true that things get a bit messy in the middle as I have sorted things into keep, donate, and trash piles. Then there's the organization of the items I keep. But the "messiest" part is changing the mentality that I need to fill the space I've created. Changing my mindset with how I evaluate a potential purchase. Coping with my new set of expectations that are not yet implemented in the entire house.
The process of change is not instantaneous. As much as I must work at keeping the physical spaces clear, I also need to recognize when old thought patterns creep in and clear that brain space too.
I know I breathe easier when I'm in my home. I make daily lists and focus 15 minutes to declutter a new space. It takes about 20 minutes a day to maintain the clear spaces, far better than before.
I appreciate the challenge to change and the benefits it brings. I appreciate the support network I've found in friends that are on their own journey of simplifying their lives. I am enjoying the process, messiness included.
well done!
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