Definition of Crap

The topic on the radio today was discussing ways to thin one's schedule.  I called in with the easy-peasy answer to de-crapify your schedule.  My advice was too vague and I decided to correct that and posted to the DJ's Facebook page.

Here is my list of things that must be done:
1) Work
2) Eat - grocery shop
3) Exercise
4) Dr. Appts.
5) Make sure your kids (human and/or fur babies are doing 1-4)

The rest is non-essential crap that one must prioritize to find a balance.  I know some will find a glaring hole in the essentials that I did not include something faith based, but I find my zen when I exercise and commune with nature.  Prayer is part of my routine but it fits in with the essentials listed.

To help in getting the essentials done I offered some concrete suggestions.

1) Utilize grocery stores that offer delivery service if you're able to shop for at least a week and not make more trips to the store.

2) Become an Amazon Prime member and install the app on your phone.  You can easily see how Amazon's prices compare by opening the app and scanning the product.  I find even more ease in using the Subscribe and Save program with the online coupons they offer as well.

3) If you want to shop locally, many stores allow you to shop online and then have the store staff pull your items.  All you have to do is show up, verify your order with your smart phone, and show and ID.  Super sweet and time saving.

4) Start a carpool with other parents whose kids' share your kids interests.  If you have teenagers please encourage/require them to get their learner's permit asap.  You aren't doing anyone any favors by waiting because you're scared.  If they don't learn with you at their side, they will learn on their own or from their friends.  Seriously, make the investment (get some valium or prozac if need be) to teach your kids how to drive.  In our state they can get their permit at 14.  With enough hours driving with a parent, they are allowed to drive to school and school functions at 15. And the systems continues to graduate from there.  There are a lot of benefits to having a teen driver.

5) Don't put off the doctor.  This are far less expensive financially and emotionally if they are dealt with sooner than later.  I find having a set day for appointments is best.